I help founders in wellness, hospitality, and community grow without grinding themselves down.
ABOUT
Building things that last
Two exits. One burnout. A $500K investment in my own nervous system. Now I help other founders chase the win without paying for it with their health.
I work with a few people at a time — founders, operators, and builders who want to do work that means something and stay whole while they do it. That happens through 1-on-1 counsel, community experiences, or a longer stay at re:center.
My team digitized 30 years of Tony Robbins' content and brought him to iPhone — from CDs and DVDs to the App Store.
WHAT I DO
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re:center
The first Nervous System Regulation Lodge and Wellness Campus in Santa Teresa, Costa Rica. For high achievers, founders, professional athletes, and creatives ready to do less, not more.
Think rehab for busy people
ACTIVE
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Community Building
From throwing 1,000-person events in high school to launching TikTok's LA office in 2019 — placing 200+ employees above target — to facilitating retreats for YPO chapters. I help brands build rooms worth being in.
SELECTIVE PROJECTS
COMMUNITY BUILDER · DINNER ESTHLOS
I created Dinner Esthlos — the first AI dinner series of its kind. Curated roundtables with Fortune 100 executives asking the questions that actually matter around AI alignment and AI safety. Michelin-starred chefs. San Francisco, New York, Los Angeles, Seattle. No name cards. No decks. Just the right people having a real conversation about what's coming.
GENERATED
SPENT

"Networking just got a facelift, and its new name is Esthlos: Ben Lee’s AI dinner series."


CEO, LLG Media

CEO, SwipeRight Media


I work where wellness, hospitality, and community meet. If you're building something with real purpose and want a partner who's built, exited, burned out, and rebuilt — reach out. I take on a few people at a time.
